Which individual is the most unsettling to u?

Regardless of whether you are accepting of ity or think it's wrong, which of the following individuals makes you the most uncomfortable? 1) a who is very feminine in looks and behavior 2) a who is very masculine in looks and behavior "butch" 3) a gay man who is very masculine in looks and behavior "pitcher" 4) or a gay man who is very feminine in looks and behavior "fairy"